Bubblegum Betty

Friday, January 23, 2015

How I Started My Last Year in My Twenties

Well...on August 14, 2014...I turned 29 years old.  I am officially in my last year of my twenties!  YIKES!!!  I remember when I used to think 30 was old.  HA!  Not so much anymore!  I actually feel a thousand times better at this stage in my life than I did in college or even high school.  I am so much more healthy and make so many more healthy decisions that have made me just feel better all around.  Don't get me wrong...I'm tired a lot.  Mainly because I get up at 4:00 in the morning so that I can get a really good workout in before I actually start my day.  I just really enjoy working out first thing in the morning.  It sets the tone for my day, gives me energy, a healthy appetite, and helps me to make health conscience decisions all day long.  I've found that when I don't workout in the mornings...I'm so much more tempted to mega splurge on loads of sugar.  That's my super weakness...I love me some dessert!  I still have dessert...I just try and choose the most healthy option.  But mainly...I make dessert at home and only eat that.  I know what I've put in it and it's not a bunch of chemical filled poo that's going to make me feel like just that...poo.

Anyways...I really, truly do feel so much better and just purely enjoy life so much more now than I ever have.  I am so much happier, healthier, and fulfilled than I have ever been.  God has given me beyond what I deserve.  But, I certainly thank Him everyday for blessing me beyond belief.  I have such an amazing daughter, husband, parents, brother, sister-in-law and her entire family, and friends. I still can't believe that God chose me to be Seiden's mommy and just see so much love through her beautiful blue eyes every day.  My love just explodes for her.  I love my job and am so blessed to wake up every morning and enjoy coming to work.  And...it will be even more fun and enjoyable when Seiden starts school...100 years from now!  Didn't I tell you?!?  She's gonna stay little for a long, long time!  I wish :-(  She's growing too fast.  Back to it...I have such an amazing husband that I get to share such special moments with and live life with.  We've had our ups and downs...but I wouldn't want to face a single second of any of it without him.  My parents and brother have brought so much to my life over the years.  I wouldn't be the person I am today without their love, support, strength, encouragement, guidance, and grace.  And...when I got married...I inherited a pretty awesome sister and her sweet family.  Win win!  I have the best friends that I could ever possibly imagine.  They bring so much to my life.  We have laughed, cried, talked, questioned, and just figured so many things out together.  They are my forever besties and I am so thankful that I have such special girls who get me and love me for my flaws.  All in all...I am one blessed girl and I love every tiny moment of this precious, amazing, beautiful life God has given me.

When I got up on my 29th birthday, I took our sweet fur babies for a long run.  Just us in the quiet morning before the sun came up and it was nice and cool.  We ran and it was so nice to just be with them, doing something with them that they truly live for.  When I got home, Cody was getting up and a few minutes later, I went to get Seiden up for the day.  We had breakfast at home, then went across the street for some playtime with my parents before they headed off to work.  Seiden and I came back home and she went down for a cat nap before we headed off to CrossFit.  The WOD for that day...OMG!  It was a crazy squat WOD with front squats, back squats, and overhead squats.  You did each movement for 1 minute and got as many reps as possible in that minute, then rested for three minutes in between.  You did each movement twice.  I used 75 lbs for front squats, 95 lbs for back squats, and 65 lbs for overhead squats.  I can't remember how many total reps I got.  But I remember writing down between 13 and 19 reps depending on the movement.  It was killer!  But oh so good!  Then...after the WOD...we did 29 birthday burpees.  YAY!  My sweet friend Bria had brought mini cupcakes, party hats, and party masks to celebrate too.  Didn't I just say I had the best friends?!?  After CrossFit, Seiden and I headed to grab some coffee from Big Country Coffee and then home for a nap before lunch time.  I got ready for the rest of the day while Seiden napped.  Then, I fed her a bottle (yes...my sweet toddler was still drinking bottles then...tear) and some baby food and we headed to ACU to get my mom for lunch.  When we picked up my mom, we talked about where we wanted to have lunch and decided on the Natural Food Center.  One of my faves!!!  LOVE that place!  We had such a yummy lunch.  And Seiden was a perfect angel...as always!  She gobbled down some avocado and several bits of a grilled cheese sandwich.  The girl loves to eat!  After lunch, Seiden and I headed back home and played and played and played.  And then she napped because of all her playing!  She woke up about 30 minutes before dinner.  And, Cody had just gotten home.  So, we played some more until it was time to head across town to the Beehive for some delicious dinner.  Dinner was delicious.  You can't go wrong with the Beehive...or Perini's for that matter.  After dinner, we headed back home to have some cake and open presents!  My parents and brother got me two outfits from Lululemon.  2 pairs of running shorts, 2 sports bras, and 2 tanks!  LOVE!!!  Cody and Seiden got me a new purse and wallet :-)  I had just gotten back from a trip to Philadelphia and a day trip to New York City the week before my birthday.  When dad and I were in NYC, we were walking down 5th avenue and I snapped a pic outside of Louis Vuitton and sent it to Cody.  He told me he had been racking his brain as to what to get me for my bday and told me I could pick something out.  I thought he was joking...but he wasn't!  So...I picked out a gorgeous bag and matching wallet.  The bag that I got is the Totally MM and the wallet is the Emilie Wallet.  I LOVE them!!!  So sweet of him to let me do that in such a fun, historic place...and on 5th avenue to top it off!  After cake and presents, we watched a movie and just hung out and spent time together.  I had to put Seiden to bed in the middle of the movie...she had a big day and was pooped!  We definitely celebrated big!

I can't believe this is my last year in my twenties.  But...I'd say that I started it off with a bang!  Here's to 29!!!




 






Monday, December 8, 2014

October 19, 2014 - ONE Year Old!!!

Birthdays have always been a HUGE deal in my family.  Like...to this day...August is my birthday month.  I don't just get one day...I get the whole month.  Yep...that's how special my parents made our birthdays.  They made you feel like the entire month was dedicated just for you.  We had birthday traditions and celebrations that were just so special and sweet.  To this day, my parents and Cody, make my birthday so very special.  So...it's no secret that I want Seiden to grow up the same way and have wonderful, special, and amazing birthday traditions.  Her birthday party was so much fun, for all of us.  Traditions are so much fun.  They have so many special memories attached to them and I just want Seiden to always know the fun and joy of them.  And...for her to get to experience extra special things on the day that is all her own.

On Seiden's birthday, I went and got her birthday donuts for breakfast!  I always wake up a couple of hours before Seiden gets up.  One, so I can get a couple of things done while the house is still quite and not bustling.  And, two, because I enjoy sitting on the couch with my fur babies catching up on The Vampire Diaries while watching the sunrise before everyone else wakes up.  So, when I left to get Seiden donuts, she was still sound asleep.  I left the monitor on, turned it up so Cody could hear it, and went to Jack and Jill for some birthday donuts.  I also got a couple of chocolate glazed ones for Cody and a half dozen donut holes to split between the fur babies.  For Seiden, I got a white iced sprinkled donut and a blueberry cake donut.  When I got home, she was still sound asleep (it wasn't even 7...so no surprise there!).  So, I went in our room and turned off the monitor and then I gave our fur babies their little treat from the donut shop.  They, of course, loved them!  Such sweet babies to share in Seiden's birthday breakfast :-)

About 7:30, I heard the sweetest little voice "talking" to her stuffed animals in her crib.  I peeped in her room and there she sat holding her bunny and just babbling to it.  I stood there and watched her for a few minutes.  I stand over her a lot and watch her sleep.  She just looks so angelic and is so peaceful and relaxed.  But, it was so cute to watch her just sit in he crib and be content and play with her stuffed animals.  At one point, she was rocking her bunny.  Which, she does a lot with her baby dolls and stuffed animals.  It was just so sweet to peep in on her when she had no idea I was there.  But, then, she saw me.  And, I got the biggest smile, giggle, and excited squeal out of her.  It was so sweet.  She popped right up, had her hands on the railing of her crib, and was bouncing up and down.  I walked right up to her reached in to get her and her sweet, little arms reached up for me.  She wrapped her arms around my neck and I just squeezed her.  I took in her sweet smell, kissed her soft little cheek, buried my nose in her neck, and we just stood there and swayed back and forth for a good minute or two.  She was so content to be in my arms and all snuggled in.  I will never forget this moment on her very first birthday.  I didn't get to hold her the day she was born.  In fact, I didn't get to hold her until she was 12 days old.  I know she doesn't remember that, but I do.  And anytime she just wants me hold her, I will do it until my arms fall off.  I have carried her around the house while cooking, cleaning, changing clothes, brushing my teeth, feeding the dogs, etc.  Cody offers to take her when he's home.  But, I never want him to unless it's dangerous or I'm about to take a shower or something.  I've never said it out loud, but maybe that's why I don't mind it so much.  I know it was only 12 days, but they were long.  And just being in the moment in her room on her first birthday with her in my arms when it was just us two was just about the most perfect and sweetest way to start off celebrating her first birthday.

I got her all changed and ready to eat some of her nutritious birthday breakfast.  She was super excited when she saw her birthday donuts.  The girl loves her some carbs and sweets!  I still had the "I Am One" sign on her high chair...so it was so fitting that she sit in that and eat her birthday breakfast.  I thought about getting some chocolate milk for her to try.  But...I didn't want to go overboard.  Or for her to get a stomach ache...or be on some crazy sugar high!  She ate about a half of the blueberry cake donut and a little more than a fourth of the sprinkled one.  I'd say that was a pretty successful dent in both of those donuts!  The girl can eat :-)  She also drank a ton of milk...so she got some vitamins and nutrients added in there.  Oh...she also shared some of her donuts with the puppies.  She thinks it's hilarious to feed them.  She thinks it's even more funny to try to be sneaky about it when she thinks you're not looking.  Oh my!  After breakfast, Cody was still asleep, so we marched across the street to see Opa and Bella and play over there for a bit before her morning nap.  My dad makes an egg for her every morning.  And on her birthday, it was no different!  I thought she might not be hungry since she had just devoured those donuts.  But, she proved me wrong.  She didn't eat it all, but she at about half.  Then, we played for about 30 minutes before heading home.  Cody was up when we got home and had all her fun, new toys out for her to play with.  We played with her until about 9 when she started getting sleepy.  So, we laid her down for her morning nap and she slept until her Auntie Chrissy, Richard, Airicka, Eli, and Aaron came over for a visit and to give her her birthday present.

When I went in to wake her up, she had the craziest nap hair!  It was everywhere!  I brought her around the corner and she was excited to see everyone.  Plus...I had to show them her nap hair...so cute!  After her diaper change, we went in the living room and played with everyone for a little bit.  Auntie Chrissy and her family were heading back to Del Rio because Aaron had a soccer game at 4...so we hung out with them and played before they headed home.  They got her an adorable Cabbage Patch baby doll that she got so excited about and was rocking after we got it opened for her.  Then, she and Aaron played and we got to visit for a little bit.  It was nice to just hang out and relax after being so crazy busy the day before with her birthday party going on!  We got to spend about 30 minutes catching up while the kids played.  Then, it was time for them to head back to Del Rio so they could make it back in time for Aaron's soccer game.  And...we had lunch reservations at Perini's at 11:30!!!  YUMMY!!!!!

We couldn't think of a better place to celebrate Seiden's first birthday than by taking her to lunch at the best steakhouse on the planet.  It was also my Mimi's 91st birthday...she and Seiden are birthday partners!  She loves Perini's too and doesn't get to eat there very often.  So, it was the perfect place for two very special birthday girls!  Everything at Perini's is heavenly.  But, their Sunday buffet is something to make a special trip out there for...for anything!  We ordered Seiden a grilled cheese and I ordered their mesquite grilled chicken off their regular menu.  Everyone else had the buffet...and dessert of course!  Lunch was to die for...duh!!!  And...when we were walking out to our cars...the longhorns were up by the fence.  Michael works out there and was saying how friendly they were...except for one.  And, wouldn't you know that that was the one that was closest to the fence?!?  We got pretty close and realized really quickly that he was definitely not the friendliest of the bunch.  He was stopping and shaking his head at us.  But, he was just so pretty.  We got as close as we could to him and snapped a few pics before heading home.  The birthday princess was sound asleep by the time we got home.  So, she took a good, long afternoon nap before our evening festivities!

After Seiden wok up from her nap, we took her out to the pumpkin patch.  We had already been out there once.  But, we didn't get any pumpkins.  Plus, we thought it would be fun to go out there as a family and get some pictures of her on her birthday and with all of us.  We picked out 3 pumpkins to represent Cody, me, and Seiden.  And, we got 3 little baby pumpkins to represent our sweet fur babies.  Seiden loved the pumpkin patch and seeing all the other kids out there.  It was a fun family trip and we got some adorable pictures of her out there!

We didn't really have big dinner plans.  Honestly, we had so much food left over from the party, we just decided to make leftovers out of them.  So, after we got home, Seiden played with all her new toys for a little while and we just sat back and watched her have the best time.  My parents came over to eat with us and Seiden had a ball eating all kinds of yummy food.  She gobbled up sausage balls, little smokies, cheese, turkey, carrots, and of course, TONS of her cake and cupcakes!  Little girl LOVES to eat...and can eat a ton!  After dinner, we let Seiden open up the special presents we had gotten her.  She obviously had some presents to open up at her party from us, my parents, and my brother.  But...we HAD to get her something extra special that she would always have to remember turning one year old.  Cody and I thought and thought and thought about what to get her.  We wanted to get her something that she would always have and could keep forever or pass down someday.  Over the summer, I called Busch Jewelers and talked to Ed about what to get her and some ideas I had.  He suggested something that I completely fell in love with.  We got her a tiny white gold ring with one tiny diamond mounted on the center of the band.  It is absolutely gorgeous.  Perfect, dainty, and completely perfect for such a special little girl.  My parents, brother, and Mimi got her a gorgeous James Avery charm bracelet and they each picked out a different charm to go on it.  Something that she will also have forever and can add to it someday.  We also got her a Build-A-Bear that Amie (my BFF from college and the best SIS ever!!!), my mom, and I made her over the summer.  I actually meant to have it wrapped for her to open at her party and didn't even remember to get it out of my secret present hiding place until Amie mentioned it as she and her mom and precious baby Holden when they were leaving her party.  Total mommy fail!!!  Thanks sis for reminding me or I probably would have forgotten all together! Haha!!!  I think it's safe to say that our little princess had a fabulous Royal Princess birthday party and a very special day on her birthday filled with love and family.

Seiden Grace...I hope you know how very special you are to us.  From the day you were born, you have completed our family and filled our hearts with more love than you will ever know.  You have been through so much in your precious little life and you have conquered it all.  You have beat the odds, crushed expectations, overcome more obstacles in one year than many of us do our whole lives, proven the power of prayer to be unstoppable, brought people closer to God, and you are a testimate to God's miraculous healing.  You are stronger than anyone I know and your will and determination simply amaze me.  You are the most perfect little girl and I am in complete and utter awe of you.  I am beyond thankful that God chose me to be your mommy.  I hope that you will always know that I am here for you and I will do anything for you.  But more than  that, I hope you know that your heavenly Father created you and loves you and He will meet your every need and be there for you in ways that you couldn't even imagine.  Your Father created you for greatness and I know you are destined to do marvelous things for His Kingdom.  I am so proud of you and I just can't tell you enough how much love my heart holds for you.  You bless me more than you will ever know and that I could ever put in to words.  Thank you so much for being our little princess and for coming into this world and changing our lives forever.  We love you SO much!!!  Happy First Birthday Seiden Grace!!!